Wednesday, September 13, 2006

it wasn't me.

if some random guy you took home from the pub referred to "it" as "making love", would you be as freaked out as i was a few weeks ago my friend was a few weeks ago?


please note that this isn't a rhetorical question.

i really am curious as to what the general consensus on this matter is.


and don't be judging me my friend.

i have she has needs.

and possibly a drinking problem.

29 Comments:

davethescot said...

Baby, when I think about you
I think about love
Darlin, dont live without you
And your love
If I had those golden dreams
Of my yesterdays
I would wrap you in the heaven
till Im dyin on the way

Feel like makin
Feel like makin love
Feel like makin love to you

Baby, if I think about you
I think about love
Darlin if I live without you
I live without love
If I had the sun and moon
I would give you both night and day
Of satisfyn

Feel like makin
Feel like makinlove
Feel like makin love to you

And if I had those golden dreams
Of my yesterdays
I would wrap you in the heaven
til Im dyin on the way

Feel like makin love
Feel like makin love
(repeat many times)
Feel like makin love to you

September 13, 2006  
la nadine said...

well of course its okay when you say it, davethescot.

you big hunk of burning love, you.

September 13, 2006  
davethescot said...

awwww shucks

*blushes*

September 13, 2006  
cristy said...

Um, yes. Definitely.

September 13, 2006  
Anonymous said...

Million dollar hair says "Nup Makin Love is fine with me. Better than soooooo many other expressions.

September 13, 2006  
Anonymous said...

MDH... and I think it is very sweet and full of respect for the deed. I think there should be more of it!

September 13, 2006  
Susanne said...

Yes. Definitely. A one-nighter is not "making love."

September 13, 2006  
elaine said...

My friend would freak out and tell them to go home*.

But then again, she is notoriously committment phobic.

*unless the sex was VERY good, and then she'd finish with them and THEN send them home.

Don't judge her either please.

September 13, 2006  
Tuppence said...

Could he possibly be saying it because he thinks it's what you want to hear?

PS - These are men we are talking about. Sometimes they can be completely clueless.

September 13, 2006  
Scriblurgh said...

What I want to know is, was he wearing suede?

September 13, 2006  
la nadine said...

mdh - spoken like a true married woman.

elaine - my friend is also a known commitment-phobe. perhaps your friend and my friend should get together and go bowling sometime.


tuppy - i think that might be why he did say it. but my friend was already naked when he said it (twice) so it hardly seemed necessary.

scriblurgh - um...no.

September 13, 2006  
fluffy said...

SPEW!

That is all.

September 13, 2006  
treespotter said...

i think that completely depends on the quality of 'it'

some things escape words.

September 13, 2006  
The Man at the Pub said...

It's all very Seinfeld. If he'd said "bumping uglies" you'd think he was gross. If he'd said "fuck each other's brains out" you might think he was a over-sexed freak. "Making love" is a bit daggy because you should never use the L word on a one-nighter or first date, but at least he's a bloke who can actually use the word "love" so he might be alright. I'd go for "shag" or "on the job". It reflects my personality and is succinct without being too threatening or gross.

It can be a bit tricky for blokes though because every woman has certain words she absolutely hates and it can be a bit of a minefield out there. My fiance almost hit me the other day for saying "wide-on". It really came out of left field but I guess you gotta find out somehow. All part of the great mystery of life I suppose.......

September 14, 2006  
la nadine said...

what sort of a gal doesn't love the term "wide-on"?

its one of my faves.

unless, of course, you used it during.

in which case i'm surprised you still have a fiance.

September 14, 2006  
Mex said...

eww. eww. and eww.

i cant even remember if its possible to 'make love'.

why cant people just call it like it is and get on with it...

with me...

and your friend of course too.

but not at the same time.

September 14, 2006  
Anonymous said...

MDH... "I've got hip hop taste buds, I want to hear that base, when I MAKE LOVE, hear some lyrics when I wake up..." From the Hill Top Hoods I think?

September 14, 2006  
la nadine said...

not quite, mdh. close, but no cigar.

September 14, 2006  
davethescot said...

It sound good when John Lee Hooker says it.

The line I shoot will never miss
When I make love to a woman,
she can't resist
I think I go down,
to old Kansas Stew
I'm gonna bring back my second cousin,
that little Johnny Cocheroo
All you little girls,
sittin'out at that line
I can make love to you woman,
in five minutes time
Ain't that a man
I spell mmm, aaa child, nnn
That represents man

September 14, 2006  
la nadine said...

everything sounds good when john lee hooker says it.

September 14, 2006  
msbehaving said...

It depends how he said it...if it was just, like tuppence said, a dense attempt at tactfulness that's okay,
but if there were deep intense stares into the eyes accompanying the declarations of love-making...yeah, I'd get the wibblies.

And it's only a problem if you admit it.

And I know it's a bit naive...but i have no idea what a wide-on is. Help. =p

September 14, 2006  
Boysenberry said...

Nadine's friend was freaked,
Making love sounded wrong.
How 'bout big wobbly cuddles?

September 15, 2006  
Anonymous said...

Muddy Waters sang those lines, it must have been him first? i was always confused about that 5 minutes time thing...
is that supposed to be good?
the term "wide-on" makes me feel sick nads. i've never told you this. so does seeing hairy bush in porn.
uum anyway - if he said it twice it means you didn't pull him up the first time. next time you hrear inappropriate "love" using, just yell: "OH YEAH SEX ME SEX ME NICE AND HARD." this should word him up to what kind of a sheila you are and he will know not to try to charmingly woo you, which i think he was.

September 15, 2006  
Zoe said...

It is my no means the worst thing, or even the second worst thing that my friend* has heard in similar situations.

1st runner up: "See I can find a clitoris AND a pub!"

Winner: "I like to do it doggy style. (I think we can agree there's no problem up to this point, but then ...) Woof! Woof!"

* she also would prefer not to be judged.

September 15, 2006  
Adam said...

Um, hi, um, ahhhh.... what's a wide-on?

September 15, 2006  
Grant Edmunds said...

hahahaha woof woof! hahahha fuk yes thats gd

luv grant

September 16, 2006  
fluffy said...

Jesus fuck Dave that was Muddy Waters ot John Lee Hooker.

Call yerself a rock trivia buff indeed!

HRMPH.

September 18, 2006  
Malady said...

Adding to the chorus who don't know what a wide on is?? Someone please!!

Also, I think its rather nice that he called it making love. I'd like that.

September 29, 2006  
Nicole said...

Errr - its called SEX buddy. S-E-X. Ergh..love...

October 04, 2006  

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